What being a Dad can teach you about selling

We all have a point-of-view we want to communicate.

But … we don’t communicate in a bubble.

You have a point-of-view, and so does everyone else you talk with. Along with that point-of-view comes a set of biases, past-experiences and an intimate perspective.

This “clash of world-views” means that almost every conversation starts-off with a disconnect. You must effectively communicate your point-of-view if you want to persuade, influence or inspire.

This is what you do as a salesperson, and whether you like it or not, you are a salesperson.

I’ve been teaching “sales” for photographers for quite some time now, and I love the topic. However, having a 2-year-old daughter has made me more intentional and focused in my approach to communication. I believe that you can learn a lot from being a Dad, as I am to my daughter Ava.

Let me explain …

When I want Ava to play instead of watching Dora the Explorer, I have to talk about playing in a way that interests her. When we’re trying to potty train her, we have to talk about it like an exciting event to get her equally as excited about it. If we’re trying to get her to eat her food, we have to talk about how she’ll get bigger by eating it instead of telling her how yummy broccoli is (because she’ll never believe that).

When Ava throws a temper tantrum and won’t share when she’s playing with her cousin, Cooper, we have to tell her that if she keeps acting this way, then Cooper will have to go home. When we have to leave the park after playing, we have to get her saying “yes” to what we’ll do when we get home.

I really could go on and on, but you get the point.

Here are the 5 “selling” principles that being a Dad can teach you:

  1. Talk in terms of other’s interests
  2. Get excited about whatever it is you’re selling
  3. Focus on the outcome
  4. Make the alternative undesirable
  5. Get them saying yes

The point to this article is simple; effective communication is the foundation to “selling” as a photographer.

[highlightcenter]If you want to make a living from photography and create long-lasting success, then you must become an effective communicator. You must learn, practice and implement effective ways to convey your point-of-view.[/highlightcenter]

You could be trying to “sell” yourself to a bride and groom looking to hire you as a wedding photographer, or you could be trying to “sell” an upgrade to a larger print size to a family. You could be trying to “sell” yourself to a magazine to do a featured cover shoot for them, or you could be trying to “sell” yourself to a wedding coordinator at a high-end venue to get on their referral list.

No matter what the situation, when you replace “sell” with “communicate”, it’s the same thing.

Learn how to communicate and you learn how to sell. It doesn’t have to be scary.

Written by <br>Bryan Caporicci
Written by
Bryan Caporicci

Bryan Caporicci is an award-winning wedding and portrait photographer based out of Fonthill, Canada. In 2014, he was awarded his Masters of Photographic Arts (MPA) designation by the Professional Photographers of Canada (PPOC), making him one of the youngest Canadian photographers to receive this level of achievement.

Bryan has been leading and educating photographers on the "business side" of photography for the last 12+ years. He is the author of 'Pricing for Profit' and the host of the 'Business of Photography podcast. He teaches at workshops across North America, including industry-leading conventions and conferences such as WPPI, Shutterfest and Canada Photo Convention. Bryan is also the CEO and Founder of Sprout Studio.

Written by <br>Bryan Caporicci
Written by
Bryan Caporicci

Bryan Caporicci is an award-winning wedding and portrait photographer based out of Fonthill, Canada. In 2014, he was awarded his Masters of Photographic Arts (MPA) designation by the Professional Photographers of Canada (PPOC), making him one of the youngest Canadian photographers to receive this level of achievement.

Bryan has been leading and educating photographers on the "business side" of photography for the last 12+ years. He is the author of 'Pricing for Profit' and the host of the 'Business of Photography podcast. He teaches at workshops across North America, including industry-leading conventions and conferences such as WPPI, Shutterfest and Canada Photo Convention. Bryan is also the CEO and Founder of Sprout Studio.

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